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Managing Your Life Season of "Fall" when in or Beyond Marital Trauma
FALL – the beginning of reality of altered climatic states that take you from living more abundant summer joys to losing some of life’s...
Valerie Bryant
May 24, 20233 min read


Lessons from a Red Snowflake: In Remembrance of the Late Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
My mom was staring motionlessly at the tv broadcast when I bounded into our living room. To see her standing stock still before the tv...
Valerie Bryant
Jan 16, 20235 min read


Quick-Start Menu for Mamas in Desperate Job Search
Benefits of a Quick-Start Menu When you get a new piece of mechanical equipment, do you sometimes use the “Quick Start” menu to get...
Valerie Bryant
Jan 8, 20236 min read


$2 and a Handmade Card – How They Got Me Through
When reality hits that a relationship has died, the pain is devastating; the shock is real. Especially after you’ve invested heart and...
Valerie Bryant
Sep 15, 20223 min read


Mama – Are You Praying with your Eyes Open?
Do either of these prayers sound familiar? “Now I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep . . . Amen!” “God is great. ...
Valerie Bryant
Aug 15, 20225 min read


Mama, Mama - Stop the Crying
We’ve spent these past few years under siege - Covid siege. If there were ever a song to define these recent past years, it would have...
Valerie Bryant
Jan 2, 20227 min read


Roll Up Your Sleeves - Straighten a Sister's Crown
As an African American (Black) child growing up in a south-side Chicago ghetto, I was there on the night Chicago burned behind the assassina
Valerie Bryant
Jun 7, 20204 min read


A New GPS that Gets Parents Past the Negatives
I wish I could tell you how often I have celebrated both pregnancy and birth announcements with couples. As a childbirth instructor, I ...
Valerie Bryant
Jul 10, 20194 min read


When Life Makes Your Family Take an “L”
When the world is so intent on labeling you as "winner" or "loser", a better mindset is to redefine that loser "L" to mean "Learn".
Valerie Bryant
May 16, 20194 min read


5 Bad Parenting Knots to Avoid at All Costs
Most parents want to avoid promoting negative attitudes and outcomes within their homes. Having so many children under my roof has given...
Valerie Bryant
Apr 22, 20192 min read


4 WAYS TO GET PAST DREAD AS A MOM
Weeks like this past one are incredibly trying for me as a mom – and I bet they are for you, too! It’s when you responsibly line up...
Valerie Bryant
Mar 23, 20196 min read


When Mama Bear Growls - TUFF Mama and Most Unlikely Decisions
As Lee Greenwood’s song goes (with a twist): "From Detroit down to Houston; from New York to SA". I know - Lee Greenwood used "LA", but...
Valerie Bryant
Jan 18, 20195 min read


My Dad Took a Risk and it Validated Me
When I was a youngster in the first grade, I recalled classmates playing the “Truth or Dare” game – a diversion that never met my fancy....
Valerie Bryant
Jan 18, 20195 min read


3 Be-Attitudes of Good Parenting
I have been in the mothering trenches now in excess of 250K hours – over 30 years. That statement comes not as a bragging point, but as a...
Valerie Bryant
Nov 29, 20185 min read


2 Basics to “Save Face” When You “Lose Self” in Front of Your Child
Being a childbirth educator grants me the joy of seeing a couple welcome and embrace their new baby while it is yet in utero. Watching...
Valerie Bryant
Jun 22, 20184 min read


Use this One Easy Basketball Concept & Build a Winning Family Team
As a mom, I find myself regularly searching for new and credible ways to instill winning family concepts in my children. If your...
Valerie Bryant
Mar 11, 20183 min read


The ABC-123 of Being a Great Mom
When much material is written on how to care for a newborn, even more needs to be written on how to be an effective and wise mother. ...
Valerie Bryant
Feb 16, 20185 min read


6 Ways to Tighten the Grandparent Bond
Take a moment to imagine how interesting it would have been to live during the time prior to Noah’s flood. This was a period when people...
Valerie Bryant
Feb 3, 20184 min read


6 Tips to Warm Up Your Place Called "Home"
In The Wiz (a 1978 remake of The Wizard of Oz), lead character Dorothy (Diana Ross) sings these end tune words, expressing her longing to...
Valerie Bryant
Jan 17, 20183 min read


7 Special Gifts a Father Should BE for His Children - a Tribute to My Dad
A latchkey kid in a Chicago ghetto, I would have known no better life had it not been for my incredible parents. Together, they combined...
Valerie Bryant
Jan 11, 20187 min read
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